Sunday, June 12, 2011

Decisions in relationship


Everyday we make a decisions, some of them are very small, like with whom I will see today, what I will eat... and the other are big one, like where will we live, where I will work,...

Most of use don't have problem to make a small decision, but for the big one we need time, one day till one or more months. But our life is like this, that we need to take our responsibility and make our decisions. The same point is in relationship, every day when you wake up, you decid by yourself how will you survive this day. Your decision is if you will be positive and happy when you will see your partner of if you will be angry and unsatisfied with everything.
You know situation, when you have been angry, when someone told you that you hadn't done all of your work in right time or you hadn't done it well. You have been angry at this person, but you haven't say anything to him/her. Then you just come home or see you partner and when he/she did something wrong and you throw all the rage to him/her. Your partner didn't expected this kind of reaction and he/she would be angry because you had to attack him/her....


But if you look on this story from outside, you can see that the problem was, because you didn't take a responsibility for you anger. Yes, you are responsible for you feelings and you need to remodel your feelings, before you react to someone. You take responsibility and decision that you will  remodel feelings and to react like a adult person and say to your partner what got you angry.


The two rules in today lectons are:
1) You and only you are responsible for your feelings

2) Every day you take a decisions in your life

Thursday, June 9, 2011

Successful day


Today was so successful day, because I found four advertisements for a job and I spent some time to write my 

Curriculum Vitae. I also read some time ago a book How to Prepare Your Curriculum Vitae, which help me a little bit to wrote my Curriculum Vitae. I chose only two jobs, because the other two weren't for my education.


My application was sent by mail and two hours later, I just got a respond from company where I applied, that I need to sent them two application form, if I would like to apply for two different jobs. So I wrote another one and sent it to them, but I was really positive surprised, because they responded so fast.
The first day of my goal has been finished great and I have been satisfied with my application for my new job.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Something about myself

Before I would like to start blogging about relationship and how to get a money, I need to write something about myself. I am an average man around 30. I am interesting in computers, money, sports and also in relationships. When I was a little bit junger I had started to ask myself, how does relationship working, how are people connecting together, why we can connect with someone so fast and with others we just can not see them,...

In my lifetime I learned some things, that if you would like to be happy in successful in relationship or business, you need to decide for this success every day when you wake up in the morning. It sounds strange, but it is true. I should decide every day in the morning if I will have a great day and if I will understand my girlfriend, when she will be annoying to me, because for my feelings  I qm the only one,who is responsible...

Now is a time when I haven't got a job yet. My plane is to find it in one month (till July), this is my goal, which I would like to reach it. I am now almost 2 months without a job and income. It is difficult, because relationship need to go on and girlfriend would like to spend time with me and to take her out for a walk, drink or just go in cinema. For this thing I need a money, which is in two months almost gone. My savings stay for this long, but it won't stay any more on my bank account in the future if I won't find I job.


Sunday, June 5, 2011

Relationship and money togeder

Most of you will ask, what do these two things together? Yes, you are right they don't have so much in common, but bout of them are needed. You need money to have car, flat, house, holidays,... and you also need a happy relationship to be fulfill in your life. There is much more, but you will be able to read during my blogging.